Thursday, April 05, 2007

Why Teasing a Woman Makes You More Attractive

As you probably know by now being a nice guy usually gets you nowhere with women.

This is because many women feel nice guys are boring and provide no challenge.

So how can you challenge women without being too much of an asshole?

Well the solution is to introduce humor into ALL conversations with women. One way to do this is to use your discussion to tease her. In other words, you should act in a funny way while generally treating a woman like a bratty little sister.

Now a lot of guys are confused about the importance of humor. Basically they're not sure why they should use it or why it's important. Well one of the reasons being funny is important is it directly correlated to being an interesting guy. As a result, if you can project a humorous attitude, she'll have fun being around you.

Even if you're being funny by making fun of her, she'll still be attracted to you.

While it might seem counterproductive to make fun of a girl you're trying to pick-up, teasing can an extremely effective way to build attraction.

It works because:

1) You're demonstrating that you're not the "average nice guy" and you're not consumed with *pleasing* her

2) You have a sense of humor and can use it to enhance a conversation.

3) You're reversing roles by making her "work" for your affection

Making fun of her includes teasing her or calling her out on anything she says. In addition, you can also try taking some of her comments and twisting them into a sexual innuendo.

By teasing or making fun of her, you're creating a situation where she isn't sure if you are into her or not. As a result, she'll view you as a challenge and will start to subconsciously think you're interesting person.

In the end, teasing a woman can be first step towards building attraction and progressing to the next level.

Monday, April 02, 2007

Using Seduction Tricks and Techniques To Attract Women

If all a man wants from a woman is sex, using seduction routines, tricks, or techniques is an easy and simple way to accomplish just that.

However, at some point for many men, meaningless sex with women isn't really all that important anymore.

Instead, they choose to go on a search to attract the women of their dreams; or what happens in a lot of cases is they hook up with the woman that they think is the one and want to keep her.

The only problem is their true self is nowhere close to the man they portray themselves to be when using seduction routines, tricks, and techniques on women.

Now, this wouldn't be a problem if it wasn't for two things:

  • Quality women can tell after a certain amount of time when a man is just using tricks and stuff to get her
  • Women who for whatever reason never quite figure it out are of the quality that would not make you want to stick around.
  • In other words, if all you have is a memorized routine or trick of seduction, when the time comes to actually attract her for the long term you won't have anything worth giving and you will turn right back into the weak man that you really are.

    It is important to understand, if you aren't having sex with women right now, then by all means go and learn as well as use the tricks, techniques, and routines proven to get men laid.

    However, at some point, you must begin to actually improve and strengthen yourself so that if you ever choose to settle down, you will be able to attract the quality of women that you want.

    In fact, even if you never decide to "settle down" you should still improve yourself so that when you go out you will simply be using yourself to attract and seduce women instead of some seduction trick, technique, or routine.